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Gemma1975
11-10-2008, 05:21 AM
Gemma you had a loveable, gorgeous face with a vivacious personality that everybody remembered and loved.
You were my shadow, my baby girl, mum’s good girl who loved me unconditionally. You always knew if I was having a bad day and you would bring me your teddy bear trying to get me to play. If that didn’t work you would put your head on my lap and look up lovingly with those big brown eyes and that would make me smile because your eyes were always so irresistible to me.
You would make us laugh at your puppy dog antics; you were full of life right til the very end. We loved to call you all sorts of names, ‘ Gemima’, ‘wiggle bum’,’ fluffy bum’ and ‘puppino’ just to name a few but you never seemed to mind a bit.
We knew the day was nearing but I didn’t think it would be today. That one last car ride sitting in the back with you was the trip I dreaded the most. Still full of life, alert and responsive I felt so gutted by the decision I had to make but I couldn’t let you suffer any longer or make you suffer for that tad bit longer just because I didn’t want that day to come where we would have to say goodbye.
Before you close your eyes and I stroke you softly those big brown eyes looked at me and you said to me in your own way, ‘hey mum I know we have to say goodbye now but everything will be okay. I know this will not ease the pain you feel but please don’t worry or be too sad for me I will be in a good place ...’ watching on with a heavy heart, and tears in my eyes you had gone to sleep for the very last time and words I could not speak.
When I pull into the driveway I still look for you waiting at the gate wiggling your ‘bum’ and smiling face and the tears begin to dwell and I wander when will this pain in my heart ease.
You will forever be in my heart, my thoughts and the treasured memories we shared together will always linger on.
Until we meet again – you’ll never be forgotten, you will be loved and missed and you will always be my baby girl. x
October 98 – 30 October 08(Diagnosed 17.01.2008 with Grade 3 Soft Tissue Sarcoma)

pee wee's dad
11-10-2008, 08:03 AM
Thanks for loving Gemma so much that you wrote these beautiful words. From one who is going through the same thing you are, I am finding for me, writing down all the memories I can think of is a great help. I couldn't do so until some level of acceptance crept into my head and heart. Now, the words about my beloved Pee Wee won't stop flowing. Someday, I will have a treasure trove of memories to read and re-read and not have to wonder, how did such-and-such take place? May God bless you with freinds and family to help you through your grief.

Max's mom
11-12-2008, 04:51 PM
So sorry for your loss. I hope you find peace. Gemma was a wonderful dog! Peace and Love to you at this difficult time in your life.

DippyBlonder
09-12-2009, 12:54 PM
I'm so sorry you've lost Gemma, she sounds like she was the most wonderful pet. I hope wherever she is right now she is as happy as she so obviously was when she was with you.

jaypaul0001
09-26-2009, 06:59 AM
I am also feeling very bad. So sorry for your loss.